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@madcarew Depression can be to do with being sad. Sad is a simple word that people understand as a basic concept and being sad can lead to some pretty bad places whether it's depression or something else that wouldn't be captured by your description but could still no doubt be a mental health issue.
Depression has nothing to do with being sad. Robin Williams wasn't sad, Spike Milligan wasn't sad. Depression is about a lack of hope. It's the absence of hope that tomorrow might be better than today; the lack of hope that you have the power to change the things that affect, limit or afflict you; It's about the seeming futility of trying to beat the demons that have followed you for years whose continued presence inhibits you from living a life of hope and promise. Its about the lack of hope that you can change or overcome these things. It's not about being sad.
A terrible tragedy. Yes, this “battle with...” business isn’t helpful. As this commentator has written elsewhere, the suggestion seems to be made that if only the sufferer had been just a little pluckier things might have turned out differently:
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/corrections/errors-and-omissions/erro...
RIP.
So sorry to hear about his illness - the article yesterday just said he'd recovered from cancer, but didn't hint about anything else.
(OT: I remember reading an article recently which suggested that calling anything "a battle with..." (cancer/mental illness/etc) often doesn't help, as there is the implication that if you're not improving or dealing with it then you're a loser).